How To Reignite The Spark In Your Relationship
Once you move in with your partner all those sweet and passionate things you enjoyed at the beginning will fade away and before your realize your partner will feel like a roommate to you.
You will share bills, kid`s football practice and a never ending list of things you have to do.
If you find yourself in a situation where your conversation turns into silence and holding hands turn into pointing fingers, something has to be done.
Do not get us wrong.
There are lots of benefits into being in a long term relationship or being married.
Many researches show that being part of a couple makes a person happier and healthier.
So if you find yourself in the vicious circle of boring habits you should take the matters in your hands.
After all you chose your partner for the long haul, and not until things get bumpy.
Here are a couple of things that you can do to start turning towards your partner:, some of them may seem small and irrelevant but you will see that they can make a huge change:
Always sleep together
Couples who share a bed together connect on a more emotional level.
There is not a scientific proof that couples who do not sleep together are unhappy, but who wouldn`t want to wake up in a cold morning with their partners hands wrapped around them.
Set a date night
Always plan a date night for your partner and keep the plans a secret.
This will spark up the relationship because of the anticipation and it will bring a renewed sense of fun for both of you.
Hug your partner often
There is a 30 seconds rule when it comes to hugging.
This is enough time for your body to feel loved and to start releasing oxytocin.
So no matter what you are doing, just stop, and hug your partner and start bonding again.
Send texts to your partner
There is nothing better than receiving a flirty text or an email from your loved one during a long boring meeting.
Compliment your spouse in public
It is one thing how you act with your partner during your alone time but it is completely different how you show your affection in public.
It is very important to compliment your partner in front of other people as well.
Go on a holiday together
You should take some time off from your regular obligations.
Book a vacation or a weekend getaway just with your partner and reconnect again.
Learn to say thank you
Show appreciation if your partner has done something for you.
It can be a simple chore like taking the trash out.
Do not play games
If you realize that you and your partner are drifting apart, just say it.
Do not play games because you are both adults and by now you should know how to work things together.
Be there for your partner
It is very important to know that your partner has your back, and of course you have theirs.
When you reach that level of feeling secure with your partner nothing can tear you two apart.
All of us want better relationships, but not all of us want to do the hard work to accomplish them.
The good news is that everything that we mentioned before should not feel as a hard work at all, you should just turn all those things into your everyday routine and you and your partner will be fine.
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